A man who lied about being rich and important has pleaded guilty to stealing nearly $200,000 from women he met through online dating services.

Westchester County, New York - District Attorney Janet DiFiore says Solomon Jesus Nasser of Ardsley pleaded guilty Thursday to third-degree grand larceny.

DiFiore says Nasser "trolled Internet dating sites" for nearly three years looking for victims.

Among other things, he claimed he'd been a high-level Department of Defense official, an adviser to President George W. Bush, a Navy admiral and a multimillionaire who owned a jet.

He had said he had cash flow problems due to legal issues and asked for loans to cover living expenses.

Nasser faces up to seven years in prison when he's sentenced Oct. 27. He's also being ordered to pay restitution.

Labels: christian dating sites, cyberpath, diamond thief, grooming. liar, nasser, online daters, online dating, romance scam, scammers, sociopath, trolling

By Angela Levin

Sara Terry claims she wasn’t really looking for someone to love when she agreed to her friends’ suggestions to try internet dating.

But when an email landed in her inbox from a man who seemed to be her mirror image, she admits her pulse began to race.

They had a similar view of life, enjoyed the same sports and both were dog owners with much-loved Labradors.

So it was no surprise that, when she met Peter Berry a few weeks later, his charm, wit, impeccable manners and soft green-blue eyes melted her heart. What’s more, the feeling seemed mutual. ‘Wow!’ he texted her straight after they parted. ‘I cannot believe we have so much in common.’

Within a couple of weeks he had proposed marriage and moved in. ‘I felt I had met the right man,’ she says. ‘He was so warm and funny.’

Today, eight months later, she is alone, a stone lighter and £35,000 the poorer, a victim of one of the most prolific fraudsters ever to be dragged before the British courts.

For 20 years Peter Berry has made a specialty of preying on single women in their 30s and 40s.

Using newspaper adverts and internet dating sites he seduced then fleeced them.

The total amount of money he has stolen is incalculable, much like the scale of emotional damage he has wreaked.

No one knows how many women he has conned, either, but the victims probably number in the hundreds.

So peculiarly unpleasant is his style of operation that most of them remained silent out of embarrassment.

He took £35,000 from his first wife and left his second, the mother of his child, bankrupt. She is now in hiding to avoid contact with his family.

Berry has helped himself to five-figure sums from fiancees in America and girlfriends in Europe, including £28,000 from a girlfriend in Tayside.

He has even taken £100,000 from his mother. Nothing, it seemed, could stop him, as he moved from city to city, country to country in search of fresh victims – until, that is, Sara Terry decided to take him on.

With the help of the police in Cornwall, she mounted a dogged pursuit of a man who also uses the names John Keady, Taz Keady and even sometimes calls himself ‘doctor’.

Last month, he appeared at Truro Crown Court pleading guilty to eight counts of deception and fraud involving eight separate victims, including Sara.

The investigating officers believe this is just the tip of the iceberg.

‘There could be hundreds more victims,’ says Detective Constable Derek Farrow, who led the case against Berry.

‘Many, who are high-powered lawyers, GPs, fund managers, senior civil servants and businesswomen, haven’t wanted to press charges in case it affected their careers.

‘I believe that Berry is an accomplished, cold and calculating villain who could easily have taken more than £1million.

‘He is just brilliant at gaining people’s confidence and creating an image of a successful, affluent man.’

So brilliant, in fact, that he even persuaded someone like Sara. An articulate and attractive 42-year-old divorcee, she would not seem an obvious ‘victim’.

Like many women of her age, though, she is fully occupied. She looks after her young children on the South Coast and works in a chandler’s.

So, like countless others, she found it easier to click on a dating website at a time which suited rather than attempt to meet suitable men in crowded bars or clubs.

This is how she found herself on a website called Fitness Singles in October 2008.

‘I love challenging sports and thought I would meet a more genuine person than someone who just wanted a date or two,’ she says with a rueful smile.

‘I didn’t upload any photographs on my profile but said I enjoyed sailing, horse riding and had a dog.

'Pete emailed that he was 40 – he was actually three years older – a very successful business consultant and interested in the same sports as me.

'He even had a photograph of him sailing on his profile.’

After weeks of increasingly chatty emails, Sara agreed on a date at nearby Langstone Harbour, along the coast from Portsmouth.

Physically he was no Casanova. ‘He was 6ft 2in, weighed about 20 stone and looked like the cartoon character Shrek,’ she says.

‘But he had such warm eyes, we had so much to talk about, he was so interested in me that, to my surprise, I found him very attractive.

‘He was attentive, flattering and very funny, which are all the qualities a woman likes.’

A second meeting, a walk on a beach with their two Labradors, went even better and on the third date he asked if he could come to her home, a detached property in a picturesque Hampshire village.

He also told her that although he was in Cornwall looking after his widowed mother, he was planning to relocate to Hampshire to be closer to London and his work.

‘I agreed because the children were spending the day with their father,’ she says.

‘Then, late in the afternoon, he told me he was asthmatic and having trouble breathing.

‘He said that he didn’t have very good lungs because he had fallen out of boats so many times and that if he went to hospital he knew from experience they would keep him in for at least a week, which would wreck a business deal.

'Nor was he well enough to drive five hours to Cornwall. He even started crying as he said “please don’t make me go”.’

She shrugs. ‘I agreed he could stay and for the next five days he had me running around after him. We shared a bed, but didn’t have sex.


'He also said he wanted to marry me and I felt really excited. We had so many common interests, I felt I had met the right man.’


Why did this remarkable turn of events fail to ring alarm bells? She has no ready answer, although it is possible that, in her heart, she really wanted to settle down, and shut her eyes to the danger signs.

'He also said he wanted to marry me and I felt really excited.’

She continues: ‘He then left for Cornwall but returned a few days later and just moved in. I didn’t question it because he overwhelmed me by organising one activity after another.

'I wasn’t working at the time and he said he was enjoying a break after several successful business deals so we spent lots of time sailing.

‘He taught me how to kayak, which I loved. He also said he wanted to buy a house for us and we went round looking at several £3million-plus properties.

'I admit that I was smitten and quite overcome.’

It was during this time that she slept with him. But shortly afterwards he began giving her mixed messages.

‘On the one hand he was tactile, but then told me he had a low sex drive and kept making excuses for us not to be physically together.

'He talked about his strong Catholic background, which I later discovered had been exaggerated, and also claimed his eczema was playing up and that it was painful to touch me.

'I didn’t like to make a fuss as there are more important things than sex, but I was also concerned as I didn’t want a non-physical relationship.

‘He began going out in the evening. He told me he was attending business meetings but I later discovered he was seeing other women.’

Just before Christmas 2008, she took her children on a family holiday with her former husband, a property developer, but agreed that Berry could stay in the house. Worse still, she lent him her credit card.

‘I had asked him several times what he wanted as a Christmas present but it was only late on Christmas Eve that he finally suggested a kayak.

I thought it was a brilliant idea but as I didn’t have time to sort one out suggested he did the research and put the cost on my credit card.’

Not only did he buy a kayak he also took out an annual subscription to Zoosk, another online dating site.

‘He also managed to work out details of my two bank accounts,’ she says.

‘He phoned the bank while I was away, pretending to be me, and put up my credit limit.

Because I use direct debit as much as possible I wasn’t in the habit of checking my bank statements, something I now realise was quite wrong.’

'I know not to sign something you don’t read but we were engaged and living together so I did.'

On her return, he became more daring, claiming he wanted to take her on an adventure holiday for her birthday.

‘He said I had to sign a personal liability disclaimer for the travel company but wouldn’t show me the details as he wanted to keep the destination secret.

'I know not to sign something you don’t read but we were engaged and living together so I did.

'I later discovered it was a loan application to the bank for £15,000.’ She is currently paying it off at £400 a month for 47 months.

In mid-April, her purse and credit cards went missing and she at last became suspicious.

On impulse she rang to check the balance on her current accounts and credit cards.

‘I was told that each of my two bank accounts was about £1,000 overdrawn and that I owed about £9,000 on my credit cards.

I felt my whole life had stopped. I immediately cancelled the cards and when the bank employee said, “What about the loan?” I replied, “What loan?” When they told me I could hardly speak.

'All I could think of was how was I going to feed my children. I then rang Berry who gave me a long explanation of a business deal that went wrong and how he would pay me back handsomely “any moment now”.

'I felt such a fool and for the next two months stayed at home feeling depressed and ill.

‘I gave him time because I thought if I kicked him out straight away I would have no chance of getting my money back. By mid-June I’d had enough.’

She then did what so few of his victims had dared to do before, and complained to the police.

‘I told them what had happened and arranged to call 999 when he next showed up,’ says Sara.

‘When he did, they came to arrest him and all he said when they marched him off was to ask me to look after his dog. I haven’t seen him since.’

She then did some investigation of her own. ‘I got in touch with the people who had been with us on kayaking trips and all the friends on his Facebook account, and told them about what had happened.

Men and women came back to me and I discovered that at least three women were involved with him at the same time as me and had also lost money.’

He had, for example, taken nearly £15,000 from Mabel Arnhill, a 32-year-old businesswoman and member of his kayaking club.

Berry called himself Dr Teady and, promising to buy her a kayak, got her credit card details and emptied the account.

Sara found herself working alongside Detective Constable Derek Farrow in Saltash near Plymouth and it is thanks to his research and Sara’s bravery that Berry has finally been convicted.

Up until 2008 a few women had reported him to their local police.

But the complaints were treated as isolated incidents and, with Berry moving around, nothing was done – as Lynne Martin, Berry’s former girlfriend from Tayside, knows only too well.

She reported him after losing the best part of £30,000, but got nowhere.

Lynne, now 40, says: ‘He was a real seducer. He’s very good at it. But I think career women are more vulnerable.

'When men put a lot into their work and don’t have partners or children they are admired, whereas women feel under pressure to have it all and get anxious about finding a partner while they are of child-bearing age.

'If you say you are interested in something he, chameleon-like, says he is too.

‘I reported him to the police but here in Scotland they said it was a civil matter and took no interest.

'I took out a private prosecution which I won, but I haven’t been able to get my money back.

'I felt so awful that initially I was suicidal and lost all my trust in people. It has taken me a long time to recover, but I have finally found someone I believe I can rely on.’

Between 2008 and April of this year DC Farrow has been tracking Berry’s victims all round the world.

He has spoken to Berry’s sister – who has disowned him – and Berry’s mother, herself a victim of his fraud.

Much about Berry remains unfathomable, such as how he has spent the vast sums he defrauded, what has driven him to destroy the lives of those around him, or why it is women he chooses to humiliate.

No one from Berry’s family was willing to comment. But close family friends are mystified by his behaviour.

His upbringing is understood to have been warm and loving. Berry was born in Callington, Cornwall, and at six months was adopted by a naval medic and his wife.

On leaving school at 16 he got a job in the naval dockyards in Plymouth. But that was a brief stay, and he has never been able to hold down a regular job since.

There may be some light shed on this question when he is back in the dock for sentencing in two weeks’ time.

Berry might well be jailed, but it is unlikely to be a long sentence.

Although still suffering from anxiety, Sara seems to be recovering.

‘At first I was very cross with myself but I have fought against becoming bitter and untrusting,’ she says.

‘I admit I was naive, but there isn’t a law against that. He, not me, should feel embarrassed about what he has done.’

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1275558/I-caught-seducer-s-net-It-began-internet-date--attractive-divorcee-Sara-Terry-stressed-35-000-poorer.html
Although, she feels, there is little chance of that.

Labels: criminal, cyberpath, fraud, mirroring, online dating, peter berry, profiling, seduction, sociopath, theft, united kingdom

Getting Known Through Anonymity

Much has been said lately about how anonymity on the internet "disinhibits" people. Feeling relatively safe with their real-world identity hidden, they say and do things they otherwise wouldn't normally say or do in "real life." In some cases, that seems to be a good thing. People may be more honest, open, generous, and helpful. In other cases, however, the nasty side of a person gets unleased.

I'd like to give a slightly different spin to this "disinhibition through anonymity" concept. My basic premise is this: NO ONE WANTS TO BE COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS. No one wants to be totally invisible, with no name or identity or presence or interpersonal impact at all. Everyone wants and needs to express some aspect of who they are, to have others acknowledge and react to some aspect of their identity. In some cases, it's a benign feature of who you are. In some cases, not.

Anonymity on the internet allows people to set aside some aspects of their identity in order to safely express others. Snerts need someone to react to and affirm their offensive behavior. This need is a bit different than simply catharting their frustrated drives, as the "eros-ridden" idea suggests. Snerts are trying to express some unresolved and warded-off feature of their troubled identity in an (often desperate) attempt to have it acknowledged. Unfortunately, they do it in a way that abuses other people. Under ideal conditions, they may be able to accept and work through those inner feelings and self-concepts that torture them. If not, they will continue to vent that ooze through their online snert identities, while safely dissociating it from their "real world" identity.

Does greater anonymity result in greater deviance? It's an interesting question. Because greater anonymity usually is associated with less accountability for one's actions, the answer would seem to be "yes." (snipped)

The higher prevalence of misbehavior among anonymous users may be more than just a "disinhibiting" effect. Rather than the anonymity simply "releasing" the nasty side of a person, the person may experience the anonymity - the lack of an identity - as toxic. Feeling frustrated about not being known or having a place in the group, the new user acts out that frustration in an antisocial manner. They need to feel that they have SOME kind of impact on others. It's not unlike the ignored child who starts acting "bad" in order to acquire attention from the parent, even if it's scolding and punishment. The squeakiest wheel. Humans, being humans, will almost always choose a connection to others over no connection at all, even if that connection is a negative one. Some snert guests may think (perhaps unconsciously) that their misbehavior is a justified retaliation against a community that they feel has stripped away their identity and alienated them. They reject because they feel rejected.

In rare cases, people who are well known in the community may become the trouble-makers. Social psychology has demonstrated that people with power and status often have "idiosyncrasy credit" - they are given a bit more leeway in violating some of the less critical rules of the community.


http://users.rider.edu/~suler/psycyber/badboys.html

Labels: anger, anonymous, bullies, cyberbully, cyberpaths, harm, hate, psychopath, slander, smear campaign, sociopath, trolls

Gareth Roger's victim sent us some chat transcripts and snippets about him which we are including here. If you meet this person online - run like heck. Our comments, as always, are in dark blue. - EOPC



Last Known Screen Name: QAZ3D

Location: United Kingdom


CHAT
Gareth: dunno whether its worth getting tickets to the big gay out

VICTIM: big gay out?

Gareth: http://www.biggayout.com
lots of gay people but baby shambles, bananarama, friankie goest o holly wood, human league,, electric six and loads more are playing (now why would he just DROP that into a chat with someone he 'loves' if not for the SHOCK VALUE? Sometimes cyberpaths drop hints about their true nature. Bisexual maybe?)

VICTIM: ahh do ya wanna go then? Just to see the bands play?

Gareth: dunno loads of half naked guys i wont be looking but you might (baiting her)

VICTIM: umm i wouldnt be looking at all!!!! besides they are gay!

Gareth: but youd end up staring at muscley half naked blokes

VICTIM:: Got my own sexy man thank you!

Gareth : Where?

VICTIM: hes talking to me on ichat right now duh... YOU! hehe

Gareth: exactly (dummy)

Gareth: theres alot of gay bands too i only want to see 4 or 5 of em.

VICTIM: wanna do that as "we" not "i"? lol you trying to tell me something babe?

Gareth: same thing (no it's not - his victim got it right. The use of "I" is telling and narcissistic)

VICTIM: Okies

Gareth: yes i mean we, but i meant "I hope I goto one of them oneday"

VICTIM: we can travel if you want, stay overnight id love to go see bands
yeah theres no reason you wont be able to go, just because I have the children.

Gareth: i know we'll see maybe next year (he's thinking about one person: GARETH!)


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CHAT
VICTIM: You there?

Gareth: yea sorry window doesnt flash to tell me I have a new message. its a pain
eveythings ok, gunna finish off packing in a min nearly done (he was probably talking to someone else or watching porn)

VICTIM: sorry just didnt want you to think i was buggin ya, yeah this ichat is a pain in the ass, just checking you had a rest today cause its a hot day and stuff.

Gareth: so what are you upto? (changes the subject quickly!)

VICTIM: Not much just watching a vid, you?

Gareth: Packing still, you chatting to anyone else? (PROJECTION! and baiting!)

VICTIM: no , only you


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CHAT
VICTIM: You dont seem like you wanna talk much today

Gareth: no... you always think i dont want to speak to you if im quiet, or if my phones off, Optimism, positivity (he means, believe my B.S. or else)

VICTIM: no not at all darling , i am being optimistic just sometimes you do sound a little offish i am being positive (he is being offish - he's a sociopathic predator)

VICTIM: i said last night i was feeling positive and i trust what you say im not worrying just merely wondering.

Gareth: Ok (putting her on the defensive!)


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Gareth on the Victim chatting with her actual REAL LIFE friends:
Gareth: im looking for a new nickname

VICTIM: Why?

Gareth: get away from old ways (get away from all the people I have crapped on and abused)

VICTIM: yup

Gareth: stopped being found so easily (see above - looking to hide)

VICTIM: good idea

Gareth: best one i could think of is Andy

VICTIM: hehe its you and its your name

Gareth: heh type that in on google try find me

VICTIM: yup loads of results

Gareth: good idea but its taken alot

VICTIM: getting out of old ways is a good idea Andy

Gareth: yep it is .......goes for both of us

ME: yes it does

Gareth: i agree, so far i havent slipped back to all the chat groups im not going back to my old ways at all (sure you aren't - you're just looking for a new cover - they all do)

VICTIM: me either

Gareth: i know but you keep gong back to the old chat groups and people, you should dump it forget about it and leave it

VICTIM: im not going back to it Andy (yeah you would probably meet someone like HIM again - predators LIVE online)

Gareth: i know your not, but you do (putting her on the defensive AND trying to continue ISOLATING her from her friends! Typical abuser ploy)

VICTIM: i havent got any of those chat things on this computer

Gareth: i know but ypou see what i mean, move on from it for good not put it on hold

VICTIM: havent put it on hold its in the bin and thats where i want it to stay

Gareth: ok good

VICTIM: i am looking forward to you coming home and for us to have that perfectness here that was present last time you were here im focusing on that its a goal i want to reach

Gareth: :)

VICTIM: but I will keep on saying sorry until im actually forgiven (she's not the one who should be asking forgiveness but abusers LOVE to put their victims in this position!)

Gareth: you are forgiven .. i was just saying you keep going back there thats something that needs to change (no because you 2 haven't talked it out and you haven't been candid with her. You just don't "GET OVER" some things - unless you're pathological and no one means anything to you.)

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Like all pathological personalities, Gareth believes he knows more than anyone.

gareth: im checking credit cards as the phone i want and the deal is a special offer and im hoping it wont end

VICTIM: itd be good if you could get it before it ends

Gareth: xxxxxxxxxxxx

Gareth: heh the funny thing was i knew more than the salesman i wass like wheres the menu then, he said there wasnt one, so i stuck my hand out and he handed it to me, went through everything found it was bottom left button heh handed it back

Gareth: hehe i sold the fone to myself (glory-hunting, aggrandizement - blatant narcissism)

Gareth: heh he also said i can walk around house while on call with bluetooth headset, the phone can be downstairs and i can be upstairs, i said not a chance bluetooth cant and isnt made to go through even a walll

VICTIM: hehe so he was trying to sell on basis of lying to someone he thought didnt know about that technology (probably just trying to do his job)

Gareth: yup

Gareth: i know theres no need to ask, but when i get this card i really dont want anything debited from it other than the phone (puts her on the defensive AGAIN)

VICTIM: your right but theres no need to ask as i dont need to use your card

Gareth: im not saying you ....no point spending on it apart from phone im saying us
in general (no you weren't - you were blame-shifting to her!)

VICTIM: so about that fone call? any chance i can have one later, sorry to push you but i like talking to you even if it is just for 5 mins

Gareth: we can have a nice long call after yes


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VICTIM: i was going to ask something then thought not

Gareth: no go on

VICTIM: Hmm I don't want to be insensitive as your not feeling too good right now and I should find out on my own, I was going to ask what animation program they made XXXXX in?

Gareth: not sure

VICTIM: Everything ok?

Gareth: sorry I drifted off (because you're not important, so many other lives to screw up, people to prey on)

VICTIM: have I annoyed you? if so , sorry I shouldn't of said anything

Gareth: You haven't annoyed me, Im just thinking about tomorrow, our living together, dreading thinking whatever. (dreading having to commit to you for most than just sex)

More Gareth Putting His Victim on the Defensive & Projecting.
(He acts jealous to keep her on a string - hoping it makes him appear "caring & interested")

Gareth: you on any chat networks?, Im going to have a quick wash, go get a sandwich and drink and open more windows.

VICTIM: No im watching XXXX again im not on any chat networks dont want anything to do with them (how many times does she have to tell him that?)

Gareth: :)

Gareth: well done (yes, you have now isolated her from anyone who might show her you're a predator, a cold snake and a user)

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30 mins later
VICTIM: thankyou so much for the phone call it was nice to hear your voice, If you need any support and help, i know its hard but I will help you anyway i can when you come through the door, ill make sure you get loads of hugs, and anything else you need.

Gareth: heya

Gareth: back

Gareth: I need to reboot, theres an update for a program on my computer I need to install.

NO mention whatsoever of what she said. Gareth totally ignored it. (a version of the 'silent treatment') So she made a video for him to see if she could maybe fix the situation as he'd made her feel she did something wrong (predators always make you think YOU did something wrong) -- this was maybe the 100th time she did this and he would normally treat me better after I had gone out of my way to make him happy. (if he "loved" her why would she have to jump through hoops to make him happy? Readers - ALL of our predators did this to their prey. ALL of them)

VICTIM: I have a video for you I made

VICTIM: thankyou

Gareth: grrr sexy thing (he's ASSUMING its a sex video - as that's all he really wants from her!)

VICTIM: your welcome

VICTIM: I have thought about something and want you to have something

Gareth: let me guess.... more asking me what train im going to get and what time. already told you I dont know yet. (why? If you love her you'd have made those plans by now...)

VICTIM: no

Gareth: sorry carry on

VICTIM: Its in the mail

Gareth: checking now

Gareth: aww thanks

Gareth: means a lot

VICTIM: when I said "patiently" i really meant that , train times are not an issue to me. you are! I hope that helps you in some way

Gareth: it does

Gareth: okies im lying down feel really tired and worn out you there? (heh - there she goes - calling him on his cold-heartedness and wanting some assurance and affection from him. Notice the HUGE emotional disconnect on Gareth's part. Sociopathic)

She heard nothing from him until the next afternoon, not sure when he was coming home, what train he was getting -- nothing. Everytime she asked him what time his train was he got angry at me. He probably did this on purpose knowing she'd get frustrated the more he held back. (Or he simply didn't care. at all. It's called WITHHOLDING and its yet another abuse tactic)

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VICTIM: have i blown things with you

Gareth: i dunno

VICTIM: ok i understand

Gareth: things dont always sort themselves out (...with a sociopath)

VICTIM: no they dont, but im trying to sort things out my end, to stop giving you a hard time but the thought is ....are you still going to fight for us ? as iam hon (no he's not - his ACTIONS not his words will say everything)

Gareth: yep (words... only words)

VICTIM: ok :)

Gareth: brb my sisters looking at my film list (no surprise - he runs away from TRUE EMOTIONS AGAIN!!)

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ARGUMENT
I was getting tired and confused over why he said one thing yet did the opposite. (because he's a sociopath) One minute he would be be consistent, the next minute he had changed his mind. (sociopath) So I tried to break it off and end the relationship; he had kept me waiting for over 6 weeks due to promise after promise being broken. He'd dumped me so many times already as it was, I didn't see anything wrong in asking him to stick to at least 1 promise. (no but with a sociopath/ narcissist they have HUGE problems with accountability AND reality. They never stick to anything unless there's something in it FOR THEM)

Gareth: You just broke up with me, and i know you are back to your old self (Again putting HER on the defensive when he should be held ACCOUNTABLE)

VICTIM:: No im not

Gareth: the one i couldnt love, i loved the real you, youve changed back (it's HER fault? These guys can only 'love' one thing - THEMSELVES!! They are INCAPABLE of love)

Gareth: should i tell my dad to give it two weeks before bringing all my stuff down, i dont think you are the same XXXX, how do i know you wont leave me when i get there, should we give it a two week tester? (he probably didn't want to come down anyway - now, typical predator - he's making it all her fault. PROJECTION)

VICTIM: how do I know that you won't leave me, you have done it so many times (he will)

Gareth: if you were your old self, the loving one, it'd be fine (the one who swallowed all my BS, believed all my lies & didn't hold me accountable that is)

VICTIM: i am the same, i just cant keep going on the same way, i cant keep hoping, and praying and dreaming things are going to be the same way when i know they aren't , you get my hopes up then they you dash them. (sound familiar, readers? She hasn't realized yet he's a predator. A snark. A shark. He kills and leaves. No empathy, no remorse)

Gareth: your not the same to me (because she's starting to question your BS?)

VICTIM: im the same as i was before (just smarter & more aware something's wrong)

Gareth: I dearly hope you are, I trust you and will take your word for it. (no he won't - because he doesn't care)

Gareth: ive emailed you some questions, could you answer them for me by tonight or tommorow morning

VICTIM: ill go look now

Gareth: i think id like you to answer them now, and then again in the morning

Gareth: tell me when you are next to the laptop and in bed

Gareth: darling?

Gareth: tell me when youre here darl, in fact if you get into bed and turn on skype ill whack off for you, and show you anything my a** to my **** to licking my own ***, if you get into bed, and turn skype on. (all about SEX!! she's asking for some REAL answers about their relationships and his way of "CONFIRMING" his feelings is cybersex? Predator. ICK)

VICTIM: Im here, im sorry i was so selfish

Gareth: no your not

VICTIM: yes I am

Gareth: if you loved me and saw a future youd wait till wednesday and help me through it (oh god he's NAUSEATING!)

VICTIM: im so sorry, im such a selfish person, i know it, i cant apologise enough,

Gareth: two days, couldnt wait two days that says something (putting her on the defensive after all HE had put her through by then!!)

VICTIM: its been 6 weeks!

Gareth: now ive seen you like this, so nasty again (unreal aren't they? When you see it from a distance. How dare he continue his projection.)

VICTIM: Im not nasty , I did wait

Gareth: yes you are. (Gareth just 'shut up' -- how much more cruel can you be?)

VICTIM: fine ill wait

Gareth: well you made it *applause* you left the guy that wants to spend his life with you regardless of everything else (oh spare us Gareth. As if that was the truth)

VICTIM: my dad said to me tonight "if you dont make a decision, youll be left always wondering"

Gareth: heh yes now you will always be wondering.. whether i would of came back and if we would of stayed together for life...now you will wonder as you left me before i could get to yo

Gareth: im not giving in to selfish demands such as: leave tommorow (he wants her to give in to only HIS selfish demands)

VICTIM: i know that now

Gareth: well i know what would of happened and im trying to comprehend my future without you and i hate it

VICTIM: ive been selfish! but i cant keep on doing this (you aren't selfish - you're getting smart to this emotional rapist)

Gareth: but you made the choice, and you are back to your old nasty selfish attitude

VICTIM: no im not

VICTIM: Im sitting here waiting for you as always

Gareth: no you broke up with me (boo hoo... Martyr Man)

VICTIM: can you blame me? im always waiting, i cant do it anymore. im so confused I dont know what to do anymore (typical feelings with a predator - and he will find a way to blame her.)

Gareth: no you left me nothing to be confused about anymore you can go back to chatting to people in chat rooms and while away the hours (AGAIN he brings this up!)

VICTIM: Im not chatting to anyone

Gareth: yet, wait two days or bugger off back to the internet, it shows whats more important and your attitude (Projection - he's probably already chatting up other people and has been right along)

VICTIM: im not chatting to guys!!!

Gareth: yet (sadist)

VICTIM: im waiting for you

Gareth: No your not you left me (how old is this guy? 7 years old?)

VICTIM: gods sake

Gareth: not all things are reversible

VICTIM: I left you because I cant take it anymore, the mixed signals. the getting angry at me for no reason, the not speaking to me and broken promises. (victims always think they can talk sense to these guys - before they realize they're PATHOLOGICAL & SICK!)

Gareth: Exactly so theres no more waiting (NO ACCOUNTABILITY FOR WHAT SHE JUST SAID!)

VICTIM: for goodness sakes

Gareth: you wont listen, your back to your old self (heh - listen to WHAT? his selfish b.s.?)

VICTIM: no, im not, you just think i am, im upset

Gareth: no I know you XXXXX you used to be much more mature and nice wanting to talk at night on skype (and believing my lies)

VICTIM: i am mature (more than him, that's for sure)

Gareth: chuck it all away for the sake of another 2 days wait

Gareth: very mature

VICTIM: im sick of going around in circles, im sure others can tell you im not back to my old ways

gareth: they may, but at least before you were different towards me, you understood

VICTIM: I dont want to argue you made your choice i made mine

Gareth: my choice was to spend my life with you, your choice was not to give me the chance to do that, before youd of said 2 days no problems, cant wait to cuddle and sleep with you and walk with you and bath with you , now you leave.

(She ended up apologising and asking him for another chance, and then he told her:)

Gareth: we will have to sort all this out when I get back, we are not over but a lot has to be sorted now


(Don't you want to just SMACK Gareth? His mind games are so cruel & pathetic)

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COMING TO THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP
I spent the next year in stress Gareth would spend all his time in our bedroom and when his parents or boss would call him, he would send me out of the room and talk in secret, all his emails to his family would be secret and I was never allowed to see what the conversations were about. My children were not allowed to make any noise when he was on the phone or he would ignore me for the rest of the day and just be aloof on purpose.

I started to get rashes all over my body, I couldn't understand what it was, but I was covered head to foot in it, it was sore and itched constantly for 4 months, I went to the Doctor and he said it was Hives / allergy from stress. I put all this "stress" down to losing the baby. (it was GARETH - toxic GARETH - did we mention when the baby died GARETH didnt attend the funeral, he went on vacation!)

His "Silent Treatment" would go on for hours on end,and when I would get frustrated after the 4th hour of this, or angry he would tell me I was the crazy one for yelling at him and trying to get a rise out of him.

He never ate dinner with me and the children; instead sat in the bedroom and ate his dinner when I brought the plate up to him, after dinner he would continue working or playing "rainbow Six" or "Postal" or "Working" (hmm... wasn't he accusing HER of being ONLINE all the time? He was online because it was a 2-dimensional world and "real" people are just objects to these cyberpaths. Besides - these predators feel: why invest any more in something you can't control)

Whenever we went out it was always when the children were at my mothers, he usually slept cuddling me, but started to sleep turning to the wall and didnt want me to cuddle up to him. He said "Its because i always sleep like this" which wasnt true so that was the first sign he was starting to lose interest in me. (no it was the one behavior you finally saw - Sorry but he was NEVER interested in you; just in what he could "get" out of you - sex, affection, a place to live, food, etc)

Sex wasnt a problem whenever he wanted it -- he was loving but as soon as it was over he would get back on his computer and ignore me. (because that's all he wanted)

If I said anything whatever it was didn't matter, he would tell me "That's not what you said" I spent weeks and months thinking I was losing my memory or going nuts. (Gaslighting)

I remember sitting on the bed crying once, in deep pain over the loss of our baby and he stood over me staring blankly, all i wanted him to do was cuddle me and tell me everything was going to be ok, but instead he said "Im going out as this upsets me and i cannot stand the crying and loud noise, ill come back when you have calmed down" (narcissist)

When his boss used to come over to meet with him for a meeting he would shoo me and the children out the house and tell me to make sure the house was pristine before his boss arrived, then we had to get out the house and not come back until he phoned me. (WHAT? What a sick piece of dung he is)

Gareth always criticised me over laundry, smoking (he would hide my lighters in the freezer for some reason and blow them up outside by making a fire and making me watch) To him, his home town was amazing and living with me couldn't compare to it. I grew to feel so ashamed of my house (which is rather lovely) all because he would moan about the location and didn't like any of his work collegues or family to set foot in it. (Blame shifting, degrading)

I was so emotionally numb because during all this time he had left a few times and come back again and I needed reassurance so I asked sometimes "are you going to leave me" this was usually when he was silent or in a mood about something. I was so insecure at this point. I felt nothing was going to be consistent, no one was going to stay with me. I had lost two children already I needed some reassurance and stability. (Gareth knew that, knew she was vulnerable and worked her like a puppet)

He would go silent on me whenever i asked him things that had to do with us as a couple or our relationship. He wouldnt talk and kept his eyes on the computer, I got so frustrated because he would never telll me how he felt and would always "Sigh" or exhale loudly (abuser tactic - to belittle her & her needs)

Whenever we had guests such as my parents or friends over, he would stay in his room and not come down, he wouldnt even greet anyone. My family said it was really rude, but I tried to explain to them that it was because Gareth was shy and didn't like social gatherings. (No he was RUDE and a SOCIOPATH)

Gareth told me about the Milgram Experiment once, was totally besotted with it. I found out by looking through his files on the computer that he had hundreds of books on psychology , & the art of seduction and hypnosis, I would always ask him if he used it on me he told me he would never manipulate me that way, he used it on other people. (BINGO!)

He never got angry (no he was angry ALL the time it appears). Never hit me or showed rage (just verbal & emotional abuse) He was just silent, where he wouldnt speak at all and this really angered me after a while as he just wouldnt speak. Like talking to a brick wall. He knew I used to get so very frustrated by this, sometimes id see a smirk running across his face when he knew I was pushed into a corner. (that's SEVERE abuse - the silent treatment, withhold - its BLATANT ABUSE)

One thing I always noticed was Gareth never made eye contact with me. When your asking someone a question or talking in general you will get eye contact or they will look at your face. Its a natural thing for humans to do, but with Gareth he never made eye contact with me , not ever (TYPICAL SOCIOPATH TRAIT!! BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE OBJECTS TO THEM) I used to think "Oh thats just the way he is" but now I realise it is very disturbing and unnatural. (AND PATHOLOGICAL) He would always pick a spot and stare at it when I was talking to him. (tuning you out)

Sometimes I would wake up around 3am and on opening my eyes, would see his face over mine, staring down at me. I have no idea how long he spent doing that, but I found it uncomfortable. (Sociopaths do that a lot)

We got a dog after a few months and whenever he got home from work he would bypass me and go right to the dog and kiss and cuddle it. I would always have dinner ready on time and the house clean but he'd take his dinner and the dog to the bedroom and stay there petting it and kissing it and ignoring me all evening. If I would venture upstairs to spend time with him he would sit there and baby talk the dog. if I wanted some affection it would have to be on his terms or when he was playing a video game / doing work and wanted to show me something. (ABUSE - he was taunting you with a DOG!)

When I needed money to get the children some clothes I asked him for the money but he said he needed $500 for his parachute jumping. (BAD PRIORITIES!) If it wasn't for my mother the children would of gone without clothes.

READERS - thank GOODNESS she's no longer with this "person" (if you could even call him HUMAN!)

Labels: abuser, emotional abuse, gareth rodger, pathological, predator, sick, sociopath, u.k., verbal abuse

EOPC's very first Cyberpath - Ed Hicks - has been caught living in KEY LARGO, FLORIDA for skipping out on his probation.

CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION. (Be sure to leave a comment at that site!)

Hicks, who trolls the dating sites looking for innocent & vulnerable women -- was finally caught in 2006 after being profiled on the Dr. Phil show as well as "Very Bad Men"and charged with Bigamy. He got the longest sentence for Bigamy ever handed down in Virginia. A Felony Conviction.
But Hicks made a mistake -- once released, he NEGLECTED to check in with his Parole Officer, as legally required - in July 2008.

A warrant for his arrest has been issued from the Chesapeake Circuit Court.

If you click this link and want to verify Hicks is actually a fugitive:
1. Select "Chesapeake Circuit"
2. Select "Begin"
3. Enter: "Hicks, Charles" in the Search by Name field
4. Then Click "Search by Name" button
5. The Criminal radio button should already default:

It will be the first case that pops up and lists the 'Status' as Fugitive! The Case Number: CR05A03857-00

Hicks compulsive use of online dating sites to find new prey led to another of his victims TURNING HIM IN!
Hicks trolls ALL the dating sites (just like Barber)
Known Aliases: Charles Hicks, Ed Hicks, Charles Greene, Charles Edward Hicks
(could be using a name we don't know at this time)

Don't allow him to prey on anymore trusting women!

Hicks has also been referred to as the "Dr. Phil Bigamist" (click here to see TV shows and a documentary about Hicks - Click on "The Man Who Married Too Much").
He sometimes uses the phrase he is "in love with love".
Additionally, he shows interests in kiteboarding, windsurfing, golf and sailing to his prey.
He usually lists his Race/ Ethnicity as 'Other'
He sometimes dyes his hair and lies about his age. He was actually born February 23, 1944.

Take a good look at all the pictures here and on Fight Bigamy of this remorseless predator who is now on the lam. These psychopathic men do not stop... he will continue destroying lives. Hopefully now he'll spend a few years in jail!

Labels: charles hicks, ed hicks, fugitive, jail, narcissistic rage, online dating, sociopath

from EOPC
In the 4 1/2 years since this was first posted - Stone has NOT QUIT sending emails, even after we REMOVED THIS EXPOSE FOR 2 YEARS, EOPC received hundred of emails from him. Stone's threats to EOPC blame us for the most ridiculous things... example: if Stone gets spam from a Nigerian Scammer he thinks its US! LOL!

He has named some of our victims or any name he can glean off this site as US!! He calls us all sorts of names, threatens and has relentlessly chased around people he thinks are us; no matter what they do or don't do. It doesn't matter - Stone will find them and harass them. By his own actions, he has proved what his victims have said about him.

Nothing seems to stop this 'energizer bunny' of cyberharassment from bothering his victims either... therefore, we are, as per a request from his Victims, reposting this.

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In early 2008, EOPC heard from Mr. Stone wanting to expose his Victim. While we were doing some background checking we then heard from his Victim(s). Stone was not pleased to hear we would not do his expose but rather, checking showed that his victim was actually the truthful one.

MANY of the predators have contacted us saying their VICTIMS are the "predators; harassers; attackers; liars... etc." We can often tell JUST BY THE VERBIAGE USED & SUBSEQUENT ACTIONS that this is complete PROJECTION on the part of the predator and EOPC is not fooled.

We have nothing further to say to Mr. Stone other than his none stop harrassment of anyone who tells the truth about him (including his misuse of law enforcement by telling them 'selective information' and capitaliizing on the different in the laws between his country and his victim's) and Stone's endless narcissistic rage will not prevent the truth from being out there.


October 2008

Gary Stone


http://www.thetoylanderstpi.com

http://hubpages.com/profile/The+Toylanders

http://www.ilike.com/artist/The+Toylanders
http://cybercrimerickkineelainemaysmith.blogspot.com


Known Nicknames/ Identities:

The Toylanders (role playing site with: 'Gary' on lead guitar & XXX on bass)
Toylander Press International (fake company used by Stone to misappropriate copyrighted material)
TPI Management (Stone 'pretends' to be CEO)
Walter Crankcase (make-believe news reporter)
Drive-by Taunter (Stone portrays himself as a righteous vigilante against 'laxity and hackery wherever it exists')
Big Brother (used to stalk victim at Betapet.com - website now closed)
Jamestown (see above)
gjstone1 (on Yahoo)
backbeatone (on Gmail and in many forums)
Gary Stone or GStone (on Facebook)

An online search for 'backbeatone' brings up results for his postings in many forums around the world, however he has been working hard lately to erase as much as he can in order to cover his tracks. (sounds like Beckstead, Dunetz/ Yidwithlid and Jacoby to name just a few!)

Known Email addresses:
backbeatone@XXX.com
gjstone1@XXX.net


According to his targets:
Stone's primary Victim is the mother of a young child and lives in another country from Stone. She had very narrowly survived long and painful pre-natal and post-natal illnesses, and had been diagnosed with an extremely rare life-threatening condition. She was also recovering from the additional trauma of divorce. With the help of her family, she was JUST getting back on her feet with her pre-school child in a one-bedroom apartment. (uh oh, the Cyberpath's primary type of target! Vulnerable woman.)

Full of optimism for the future, in October 2006, she joined her first online discussion group purely for friendship and to discuss her writing work with other writers. In November 2006, the Victim was approached in the group by an alleged singer-songwriter named GARY JAMES STONE.

Stone asked if he could publish one of her poems on his website 'dedicated to original music and art – not for profit, but because it should be done'. She was flattered and happily agreed. Then he asked for another of her poems and a short story. She sent Stone and his family a Christmas card to thank him, and included a CD of her brother's original music which Gary Stone offered to include under the 'Featured Musicians' section of his website.

Gary Stone showered the Victim with praise for her writing (love bombing) and offered to create a web page for the spoof Agony Aunt column, which she had invented. Gary Stone also quickly began gathering together all of the Victim's other creative works to promote on his website, and asked her to cobble together a prototype for a book of poetry and short stories, which THEY might have published in the future.

LOVE BOMBING:
As soon as any interest is shown by the [potential victims], they may be love bombed by the [predator]. This process of feigning friendship and interest in the victim was ...taken up by [predators] as part of ...luring people in. Love bombing is a coordinated effort ... that involves flooding [victims] with flattery, verbal seduction, affection and lots of attention to their every remark. Love bombing - or the offer of instant companionship - is a deceptive ploy accounting for many successful [seductions & lurings].

His Victim came up with the title of the book, compiled and edited it, and contributed about 50% of the content in the form of poetry, short stories, and digital images. Both Stone and his victim each printed off a master copy via Lulu.com and discussed taking it to publishers. The Victim made preliminary enquiries with publishers in her area, but nothing came of it.

The Victim later discovered that Gary Stone continued to sell the book online, but he took it down, along with his website, when the Victim withdrew permission in January 2008 for him to publish her works.

Gary Stone had immediately given the Victim the nickname 'Kinky', who was to be a 'character' in his on-website story: his 'roadie/groupie and rock news reporter'. At Gary Stone's request, the Victim wrote about 10 humorous articles under that pen-name in order to promote his website's story, but she neither sought nor expected payment for these.

Gary Stone, through love-bombing soon coerced & lured this Victim into cybersex via role-playing scenarios, which the Victim initially played along with IN FUN ONLY, starting with the 'audition in the shower' ; followed by romps 'in the office', 'on the beach', 'in the court-room', etc. Little did the Victim realize that Stone's probable mental derangement & magical thinking blurred the line for him between real and imagined events!

Narcissists know that if you kill, you are a killer; if you lie, you are a liar; if you abuse, you are an abuser; and so forth. So, they invent an elaborate fantasy to remain in denial of what they are - what they have made themselves.

They can't bear knowing they are evil, just as you or I couldn't bear that. So they make sure they UNKNOW it, no matter what. Hence the twisted thinking and elaborate facade.

Stone became very emotionally & personally intimate with the Victim and, in February 2007, he asked her to marry him to start a new life in the UK. He encouraged her to start planning a lavish wedding at a romantic Scottish castle.

Stone sent the Victim several very small, unsolicited sums of money via PayPal to start saving for their wedding. Victim felt swept off her feet by Gary Stone's attention (love bombing and mind control) and accepted his proposal on the basis that he told her he was 'soon to divorce his bullying wife.' This Victim was coerced into believing him, especially as Stone's wife began to send her abusive emails addressed to the Agony Aunt on the website.

You have but a bit part in this show. You exist to reflect his greatness in your interactions with him, period.

Notice that the narcissist [Cyberpathy is a form of Narcissism & Psychopathy] is essentially an author of fiction in which the hero is always some idealized version of himself. He edits reality on the fly to compose this work of fiction. It's how he supports his delusions of grandeur. HERE


Gary Stone convinced his Victim that his wife was a 'Bunny Boiler', so the Victim made just one polite reply and didn't respond to the rest of Stone's wife's abusive comments.

Gary Stone went into great and specific detail about how he 'could no longer tolerate his wife's and his son's abuse', including:

• how his wife tried to smash his computer with a hammer and lobotomize him with a screwdriver;
• how she had turned her bedroom into a shrine for her dead mother;
• how she believed that one of her four cats was her mother reincarnated;
• how he had not been able to face having sex with her for over 14 years;
• how he had nightmares about seeing his wife naked;
• how her many medical conditions meant that she was more of a patient to him than a wife; how she had financially destroyed him with overwhelming debt, and he could not manage on his income;
• how his adult son constantly masturbated and urinated in his bed;
• how he destroyed Gary Stone's musical equipment and regularly coughed phlegm on his guitar;
• that his whole family was morbidly obese and refused to have the lights on at home because they could not bear to look at themselves;
• that all the toilet seats in the house kept cracking under their weight;
• that they had been in therapy for many years;
• and that his teenage daughter was being monitored by Social Services because his wife hit her.

(sounds like the b.s. that other cyberpaths -- pulled on their already lured, seduced and controlled victims! You know the 'my wife abuses me, I don't love her anymore, it's you I want, my family are all psychos, I am the abused husband/ father.' PROJECTION!


Beware when someone BADMOUTHS the wife, girlfriend or supposedly soon-to-be-exes! If you don't give them what they want or figure them out? You're NEXT on their smear campaign!)

Martyr Man,

You will always be the victim, in every situation where someone tries to get close to you...You look for a strong-willed woman, latch on to her, but envy her strength and ability to express herself openly, so you attack her in vicious little ways. Ways so subtle that you can easily and convincingly deny any wrongdoing and make HER look like the crazy one for even suspecting that you are a passive-aggressive game player.

You played similar games with women before, and this was a chief motivator for their anger and "abuse" towards you... when you paint yourself as a martyr, you *always* fail to mention the emotional and psychological abuse you were inflicting on THEM.

That's right, Martyr. You are an abuser. You. Poor little cringing, eternally victimized you.

"But abusers scream, yell and hit, and I never do that!" you protest. "I'm not that way at all. I don't have the anger gene. I am completely incapable of anger."

What you are incapable of is the truth. But I am capable of the truth and here it is.

You ARE capable of anger. ...You no doubt carry this behavior on in your work and it is the reason most of the other employees don't like you. People tend not to like someone who does not do his share of the work and is sullen and resistant to new ideas. They are probably tired of your constant subterfuge and backstabbing. No doubt you also play the divide-and-conquer game, playing people off against one another.

Because you cannot assert yourself openly, you play psychological games designed to break [your victims] down, subvert their will, and subtly - invisibly - assert YOUR control.

That's right, Martyr Man. You want control. ...So you get a feeling of control by manipulating situations with a deft, invisible hand....

You remember to do the things YOU enjoy and want to do, and your friends think you're a great guy - the kind of guy who would do anything for his friends! (Of course you would - your reputation depends on maintaining an appearance of kindness and willingness, and anyone who doesn't know you WELL would say what a nice guy you are - you would do anything to maintain that image). ...

No doubt [your victim] has noticed the fact that after your initial, highly romantic and complimentary approach, you do a complete about-face once she's "hooked" - like Jerkily and Hyde. Once she's in a relationship with you, the kind and gentle and loving courtship behavior ceases, and the passive-aggressive battle begins.

When [your victim] challenges you about your behavior, you deny it, and make HER out to be irrational and crazy for even suspecting it. After all, the success of a passive-aggressive campaign depends on secrecy and camouflage.

You lie easily, leaving out little details like a wife you haven't yet legally severed ties to, and children that you almost never see. You haven't got a divorce, and you won't, because even though you hate your wife, you feel chained to her. You are dependent on her. It's a parasitic relationship. No doubt she was angry with you because you provoked her, getting a charge out of her frustration and rage, and taking full opportunity to twist the situation around until you could make yourself out to be the victim.

I haven't the faintest doubt you have cheated on her many times and lied to her many times, and that was the real cause of the attack that so wounded you emotionally. You brought it on yourself, but you won't admit that part. She's completely evil, in your little fairy tale, and you are the innocent little lamb, incapable of even the slightest twinge of anger.

READ THIS WHOLE GREAT PIECE BY CLICKING HERE


Stone declared he 'had to leave his family as he could not tolerate living with them any longer.'

Stone's known websites (some may no longer be working):


TOYLANDERS
Though taken down Jan 2008, Stone now threatens to re-upload the site using his victim's materials and to 'expose' me to the world, in order to force me to respond to him. He also does the same to EOPC accusing us of the most bizarre things, saying we did or said certain things -- and twists history out of proportion. It's beyond insane without a shred of credibility.


STONE'S WEBSITE
While trying to pass it off as his own - this site is FULL of the victim's photos, artwork & writing. 3 out of the 6 mail links on this home page are of his victim's doing. Following the links on his site leads you to more and more pictures and a blatant rip off of all of his victim's, again passing it off as his own.

NOTE: Stone has ZERO copyrights in any country over these materials. Obviously his websites are only being done to FORCE his victim to take him to court, where -- he has already declared -- he would represent himself and question his victim!. Like a rapist would question his victim in court! A Clear-Cut case of attempting to STALK & HARASS via the Courts. (NOTE: The victim's severe PTSD from Stone would cause the U.S. courts to allow the victim to NOT HAVE TO APPEAR under ADA Accomodations; therefore Stone would be bloviating to himself & a judge.)

SONGPLANET Link
Where Stone continues to sell a song for his profit, using the victim's voice

SOUNDCLICK Link
(blocked by Soundclick admin for posting abuse about me in blogs and forums)

Lulu Link (now removed)
Where Stone sold books for his profit, containing works by the Victim
Typical "playing the victim" baloney and luring in his victim! And remember, like many of our victims - she'd was in recovery from serious illness and childbirth issues and was trying to rebuild her life -- therefore VULNERABLE. So Stone targeted her like a hungry tiger! Now he won't stop because he's been exposed. He says he calls law enforcement to report us yet, here we are. He says he's taken down other blogs of our sbut we have no other blogs/ sites. This is it. Just silly!


http://www.thetoylanderstpi.com

http://hubpages.com/profile/The+Toylanders

http://www.ilike.com/artist/The+Toylanders



More to come. Stone will stop at nothing to destroy his victim and now EOPC, who now knows too much, including involving law enforcement in his games & stalking members of EOPC.

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SOME EMAILS FROM A VERY INDIGNANT STONE:
(just the fact that this predator finds it necessary to have sent over 1000 harassing and accusatory emails in just 8 months speaks volumes to his pathology


From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxx)
Sent:
09 October 2008 00:03:47
To: VICTIM 1

poor poor victim indeed. Well you have cyberpath now. Tell me xxx who said "i luv inf plus two" and where is my history? You've turned the story upside down, but that;'s entiredly consistent.
Listen xxx, why did you chose that photo? did you tell them whee it was taken?
I am dealing with the story peice by peice. First the orgins of that photo, what you and I inteneded to do with it. When the dodgy book is cleared and you dont show up to court, I will publish that, and then I am giving moonstone away.
After adding your lastest exploits. Your so pathetic.
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From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxx)
08 October 2008 13:40:33
To: compliance@ico.gsi.gov.uk;

Since we spoke last, Ms xxx,
xxx and xxx hacked my lulu.com acct and downloaded 49 bundles of MP3 files, exposing my ss number to xxx and ? others at MF software, dundee. As a result, I am filing an FBI report...for theft of company property, contained in that section is reference to several criminal and civil issues. But- there were also described several conspiracies involving a conspiracy to obstruct justice in a legal case in boston, as well as false statements made under penalty of perjury, that I had infringed on her copyrights, xxx filed DMCA complaints to Lulu.com, oronjo, and payloadz, not because she or he believed I had infringed rights, but because they wanted to keep shutting down the work, so as to get me to reach a threshold of shutdowns, to make a global complaint to google, to blacklist my e - commerace.

This was a sophisticated plot...probably involving MF software servers, and xpertise.

Both done in retaliation for welfare fraud reports. The unsettling thing, is, the victim has my e sig, and ss number, and with that, she can forge contracts, open up cc etc. These people need to be leaned on hard by your authorities,,,

the report to be filed is below. I no longer care about the privacy of criminals. xxxx's advantage is the abilty to project an air of sophisticated "butter would melt" image, and this is how she has got away with so much.

The ref to "clerk magistrate, is here because scottish authtorites mis directed me to local courts. This is an interpol issue.

(It's an elaborate plot? out to "get" Stone? sound familiar?)
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social blight, tha you actually are.
From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxx)
Sent:
08 October 2008 16:22:46
To: His Victim

for the next 20 years you wil bel monitored and on the map to every fraud, criminal dept, welfate and social services dept, immigration depts, in the Uk for the social blight, that you actually are, have nice life.
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peabody
From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxx)
Sent: 07 October 2008 17:57:52
To: His Victims

I mailed dmca reg mail. The criminal charges they would not take, so you're people were wrong on that - they said contact DA essex county so I will do that, meanwhile I am filing direct to fbi, online -
(FBI's IC3 has a 7-8 year backlog )
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file
From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxx)
Add contact Add contact
Sent: 07 October 2008 18:19:07
To: His Victim

It has to be filed with the US courts attorney gen office local in XXX, I guess every state has a US attorney gen, so I have to enquire of them, where juristiction is, meanwhile, you wil most likely recieve a notice about where to file your copyright infringment suit from each dig store. You know where of course. I will reshape the language of doc for FBI so as to suggest that you are on notice for these criminal matters. do that online

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wiz
From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@XXX)
Sent: 07 October 2008 20:25:53
To: His Victim

saw counselor today...pre-requiste for going back per wife, etc, although, as you know, she belongs there, but - she wont go, for fear of being declaired an unfit mother, etc...so it appears like its me who has to go.

But. the goal might mean a civilzed sep, based on logic that 500/wk is insane now. a cheaper appt etc.

I discussed the past 1.5 yrs. and rolled around to you, I mentioned hints, "Amsterdam," etc, and calling my house, "go to scotlland" and what I later found out was your history. And your behavior later, XXX, the atmosphere in the house. jan feb march I said, "you would think she would avoid all this by erasing the stuff"

she said "but she's mentally ill"

I said "is she?:"

what do you mean

"she may be a T rex"

She acknowleded the possibilty, because she wondered why I didnt cut my losses...
"she broke into lulu, and the conspiracy stuff I dont see what choice I have, to secure myself so I can move on..the case in boston, is going to sq one, with the original cause
she's threatened that too

Obviously the other reason to go, aside from the rest, is to deal with the wiz of a wiz penoenon, to find out the wizard, was no wiz at all, just kid playing with levers.
To find it out in 30" for sure in Hampton, was too much."

"when do want the next appt."

So which is it xxx the T rex? Or the kid with curtain and levers?

The kid we can sympathize with, the T rex not.

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filing here.
From: Gary Stone (backbeatone@xxxx)
Add contact Add contact
Sent: 07 October 2008 21:13:47
To: His Victim

filing here. The reason of normal people has failed for 10 months, that leaves the wiz of a wiz, or the raptor. I advised telling me if you were getting help, in case you showed some problem, advised help, and nothing. So T rex is possible.

http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx
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STONE'S EMAILS TO EOPC (10/8/08) -- Obviously just one polite inquiry wasn't enough for him. And Stone hasn't read our disclaimers either... just rambles on & on. He was very anxious when he first contacted us - to expose his victims!! It didn't take too long in trying to slog through his writing that something was seriously wrong with his ever-shifting story. He isn't the first predator to do this -- a sure sign of pathology though. Apparently he's going to have his minions dog us too. He just goes on & on getting facts wrong or completely confused. Sad man.  We report, we do not involve ourselves.
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from Gary Stone
to cyberpaths@gmail.com
date Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 10:17 PM
subject plz keep this channel open


If you are interesed in bringing light to this equation, realize that it is possible you are dealing with either a./ a person who is mentally ill in XXX, or b/ a T rex I am not sure which it is, but. .I want to know, help me find out.
Gary
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This is what she really is. Now look at her ma moon photo.. XXXX
two seductress images, and one proper childrens story image.
Now look look at her jj pages posted at soundclick. and bear something in mind...
she did this because I reported her for welfare fraud. Why?

Because *she* refused to document erasure of my e sig and ss number and all of my copyrighted works. Or formally separate from TPI. She did that deliberately, maintained silence about TPI, so she could prosecute what she is saying about copyright. You *do* have to do your homework.

My lawyers letter is attached as well. She has remained totally silent sincelate feb. You've have made a mistake. If you can prove to me, that she is not guilty of welfare fraud I will retract all I have said about her, and issue a formal apology. But I doubt you can, even I cant get that info. Last I heard, it was still being investigated. My intuition is, she has been slammed. And, you have screwed royally. Now, after looking at these photos, look at the blog, all the way through and wake up!

Do some actual research and contact XXX, lawyer, he has been following this for one year or more.
Gary

(Did we mention we found out Stone is on his THIRD LAWYER?)
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from Gary Stone
to cyberpaths@gmail.com
date Wed, Oct 8, 2008 at 9:35 PM
subject you've made a huge mistake

You will find in time that you have been seduced by the very sort you claim to protect people from,,,

Meanwhile, I intend to prove it...follow the blog. And when I am done, I expect a formal apology, which I intend to print. If you refuse, this will be a law suit with little miss muffit as our star witness: http://thetoylanders.wordpress.com/

In a few months it will dawn on you what an error you have made. Every word of "moonstone: sex lies and skype " was true. Incidently, you may want to reread this. And I am actually a song writer.

The book has been edited. XXX made sure the first editor was chased off line. Her name is XXX XXXX. Oh, while your at it, plz read dodgy doggerel and suspect stories, and tell me why there's a copyright issue.

Then you are going to hear from XXX brother, and my wife. I havent cheated on her in 20 years, except with XX, she has a history, at least 4 probably more, married men.
Gary
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Gary Stone

show details Apr 13

I believe this was meant for you fighter:

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Lucy Johnson
Date: Wed, Apr 13, 2011 at 4:46 AM
Subject: THIS IS ALL ABOUT MY LIFE
To: Gary Stone


Hello Dearest One,
How are you today? I believe that you are doing well, i am happy to read your mail today, i am writing this mail to you with tears and sorrow. Like i told you in my first mail that My name is Lucy Johnson from Liberia in West Africa, Presently i am residing in the refugee camp here in Dakar Senegal, as a result of the civil war occurred in my country, I am 24 years old girl 5'9" tall. My late father Mr Raymond Ellis Johnson was the personal adviser to the former head of state
(Cooper Patrick) before the rebels attacked our house one early morning and killed him alongside with my mother, It is only me that is alive now and i managed to make my way to possible nearby country Senegal where i am living now as a refugee, Please I will like to know more about you. Your likes and dislikes and what you are doing presently. In this camp we are only allowed to go out only on Mondays and Fridays of the weeks. Its just like when someone staying in the prison and i hope by Gods grace i will come out here soon.

I don't have any relatives now whom i can go to, as all my relatives ran away in the middle of the war. The only person i know here is Reverend Pastor Chris Williams who is the pastor of the (Christ The King Church) here in the camp,
i live in the female's hostel, because the camp have two hostels one for men the other for women. i am mailing you through the office computer of the reverend father, the Pastor mobile phone number is ( +221765392690 ) if you call, please tell him that you want to speak with Lucy Johnson so that he will send for me in the female hostel. you can call me today if possible. As a refugee here i don't have any right or privilege to do anything be it money or whatever because it is against the law of this country. i don't have a job, and i don't have money and there is no food in the refuge camp for past one week, I want to go back to my studies in university because i only attended my first year before the tragic incident that lead to the death of my parents took place.

Please listen to this, i have my late father's deposit certificate and death certificate here with me because my father loves me so much as his only child that is why he gave me every information about that money. i will send it to you latter, because when my father was alive he deposited some amount of money in a leading bank in Europe ( Royal Bank ) which he used my name as the next of kin, the amount is $5.9 million us dollars (Five Million nine Hundred Thousand Us Dollars) i am the only person that is aware of it and as the next of kin, and the whole documents and contacts is with me So i will like you to help me transfer this money to your account and from it you can send some money for me to get my traveling documents and air ticket to come over to your place for a better life.
now i have called the bank and they told me that unless i have somebody who will represent me with all the documents that will be required that they are not going to release the money
(1) that i haven't reach the age of 27 years
(2) that due to the federal law governing the refugee camp that i don't have the power to transfer the money,
(3) that i am under the control of Senegal
Government,
Please my dear do not think that it's too early for me to tell you this, this is exactly why i contacted you,

because anyone that is this kind of situation, will be looking for a help in any where. I kept this secret out from people in the camp here, my dear for the illustration i made on this mail i will like you to keep it to yourself and don't tell it to anyone for i am afraid of loosing my life and the money if people gets to know about it, please don't tell anyone consign this secret i told you. Remember i am giving you all this information due to the trust i deposed on you. I like honest and understanding people, truthful and vision nice truth and hard working, i did make up my mind to contact you for this, please don't betray me, i trusted you that is why i contacted you yo help me out. My language is English. Meanwhile i will like you to call me around 11am GMT time to 4pm. i have a lot to tell you.
here is my picture.
Waiting for your reply.


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Anonymous Commentot said...

I have spent some time around sociopaths. In their work you usually find them in positions of power and have control over subordinates.
Take for instance Gary Stone, he was a registered nurse and for many years the night manager. He had control over the nurses under him and god like control over his patients.
This was enough to satiate his sociopathy and allow him to lead a near normal life away from his job. That is until he lost his job, he scrambled for a few months before meeting the above victim and as the story above reads, you do not need to guess the outcome.
Sociopaths can be found in all lines of work, military, law enforcement, civil service, corporate management and small business owners but more or less in a structured environment to which the sociopath will play to their advantage.
Until, they loose their jobs or retire, then all hell breaks out and woo unto the first victim they latch onto. In my opinion the above expose and continued releases will in a sense become his new victim. It will allow him to analyze in great detail every word of each sentence and give him something to do with his time. His time, wasted as it is will be spent refuting the expose and using it as a stick to beat his victim with.
Great work EOPC! keep it up.
I can't wait to see the next installment.

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THE ENERGIZER BUNNY OF ONLINE HARASSMENT

from Stone's: Victim 1:

One might reasonably expect that the 3,500 mile ocean between Gary Stone and his victim would prevent him from attacking her. But he hunts her down - one minute like a love-sick puppy and the next like a rabid wolf - and his aesthetically-challenged face pops up on every website she visits.

Stone has relentlessly stalked his victim on the Internet for over 3 years now. During that time he has wrongly and repeatedly reported her for "welfare fraud" to innumerable authorities, including the FBI, the DWP, US Immigration, Scotland Yard, the First Minister for Scotland, MI-6, and even MI-7... which exists only in James Bond movies!

When Stone found online links to his victim's involvement in a volunteer group in her local community, he emailed the leader of that group making false, outrageous accusations that she posed a danger to children, in a misguided attempt to blacken her name.

In recent weeks Stone found online photos of his victim making a success of her volunteer work; he then stalked each and every person photographed with her and spammed their various Facebook pages with his incessant drivel. Naturally none of these victims read beyond the first paragraph of Stone's word salad before clicking "Delete and Block this User." It provided mild amusement among the victims for about as long as it takes to wipe bird crap off your windshield.

As a former nurse, fired for harassment and insubordination, Stone chooses to describe himself as a "retired nurse" on Facebook. He uses his alleged nursing qualifications to prop up his ego, and has the audacity to email his victim's endocrinologist (a world-renowned Professor in his field) with advice on how to treat her as a patient! Stone relishes taunting his victim about her illness, and regularly provides his own wild diagnoses and recommendations about her medication.

In all of these attacks on his victim, Stone really seems to expect to be taken seriously, when in fact he is making a global laughing stock of himself. Stone's ramblings provide enough material for an entire conference on pathology, projection and pathos.

Instead of Stone announcing to the world (on Facebook) about his colonoscopy, he should try trephination and stick the camera where his brain should be. [The first image here refers to The Stone of Madness: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trepanning]

But Stone the Energizer Bunny knows no bounds! Wait until you hear what he does to his second victim...

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remarks from Victim 2:


"RAVINGS OF A LUNATIC"

One would expect after 3 years of no contact with Stone he would get the hint: Leave us alone.

Stone is nothing but an amusement now. Seeing Stone rant and rave to himself on facebook/blog sites, where he replies to his own replies of replies... it brings a slight wry smile to your face knowing that he can't get to anyone now, knowing that Stone is tearing himself apart from the inside out trying ever so desperately to get an audience... Someone to validate he is the victim... Someone to acknowledge he exists.

Even his one and probably only friend Kevin Carey takes the mickey out of Stone; what makes it funny is Stone is oblivious to it. However, as a leading UK psychologist has pointed out, there is no cure for Stone's illness, no pills, no surgery and, no amount of psychological analysis or psychiatric treatment can cure him. The only treatment for Stone, is not considered humane in these modern times and is akin to the treatment of a rabid dog. The only hope is for Stone to get a new victim, someone that offends his inverted morals or (his lack of) moral subconsciousness.

Stone's ranting would have you to believe that [victim 1] has "bilked" the government for £millions of welfare money while [victim 1] has sexual relationships with every married man in the UK & France, "up to 4 married men a day" - and sends Stone' subtle signals that only Stone can interpret', which Stone has labelled "gas lighting". Somehow Stone sees the "gas lighting" as proof that [victim 1] still has a desire to have a relationship with Stone. "Subtle signals" is all that Stone has, as Stone openly admits that he has not received any emails from [victim 1] since Feb 2008 when [victim 1], in a very polite manner, told Stone to piss off and leave her alone.

These "subtle signals" - or voices in Stone's head - have led to a combination of 4,259 emails (to date) having been sent by Stone to [victim 1] and [victim 2] in the last 3 years: that's 3.8 emails a day, every day, day after day after day..., continuously for 3 years. That's not counting all the thousands if not tens of thousands of emails Stone sent to third parties trying to get [victim 1] and [victim 2] put in jail.

Not bad going for a blind man.

The voices in Stone's head have led him to believe that [victim 2] is the world's most prolific hacker. According to Stone [victim 2] is in control of Russian mobsters, has infiltrated government servers to remove evidence and has hacked the FBI (to plant evidence). Stone says that [victim 2] has complete control of the TOR proxy network and other proxy networks. Stone would have anyone that reads his crap believe that [victim 2] has complete control of his computer and internet connection, thus controlling all his email/blog/user accounts.

Stone phoned [victim 2]'s work with "evidence of hackery", Stone not knowing that [victim 2] had pre warned his employment of his cyberstalker. As Stone read off his list of evidence, he was on speaker phone, the whole office were muffling their laughter... Stone is now responsible for bringing humour to [victim 2]'s friends and a lot catch of phrases: "Don't do a Stone on me now", "Let's Stone-alize him/her" and "I'm going to get all Stone on your arse."

The "prolific evidence of hackery" that Stone has gathered trying to convince himself and the world, just so happens to coincide with a 14-month period that [victim 2] was being treated for a brain tumour - surgery, recovery and subsequent physiotherapy. Yessssssssss, of course, [victim 2] was in ICU with his laptop hacking Stone's computer on a daily basis.

Dealing with Stone is like walking barefoot in the park... in one horrific moment you realise you have stepped on dog faeces, you close your eyes preparing yourself to look down and, when you do, it just confirms that the essence of Stone has just squeezed up between your toes. As you clean Stone out from in between your toes you can't help but to laugh...

Yes, Stone is a lunatic; the wires in his brain are not crossed, they were just not connected to begin with. It brings a smile to one's face knowing that in the twilight of Stone's years the only purpose in his life is his obsessions. One could imagine Stone on his death-bed... "OHHHH the lights have dimmed, [victim 1] is sending a signal," and "WAIT WAIT, [victim 2] is hacking my pillow case."

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EOPC is glad to see his victims have taken a humorous look at Stone's nonsense. We hope our members and supporters who this lunatic has tried to blame, harass and intimidate sees what a useless joke he is... and that he is only digging a bigger and bigger hole for himself.

Stone DID find an audience but it was only people who are as SCREWED UP or MORE SCREWED UP than he is!! Betsy Ashby and Laura Knight Jadcyzk!! Good going Stone!!! maybe they'll give you a padded cell together!

Stone has accused EOPC of working with his victims to ruin his life in some way, that we involved ourselves with his personal life, that two of us are old members we helped -- one who we recently learned spent most of last year in the hospital after having serious surgery (just like his Victim 2). So according to the all-important lunatic Stone, these and others are spending all their waking time with Victim 2 hacking Stone's computers and life... ROFL! Serious help is what Stone really needs.

If you know Stone please, please - get him into an institution where he can be helped as soon as possible so he can spend quality time with his family and enjoying his life instead of his making the pit of his own insanity bigger all the time.



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COMMENTS:...

It's hard to make sense of anything this guy writes. His thinking is like confused babble. The sad part is that someone this pathetic can make so much trouble for everyone. He's like a runaway train destroying everything in his path. Someone like this needs to be confined.
12:48 AM

Anonymous said...

This guy is a real case...

I hope the victims are prepared for a long siege - it can go on for YEARS. The good thing is that, if you state your case, back it up with documentation, hold your ground, and learn to not respond to the pathological, eventually everyone will see them for what they are: pathetic.

But that takes time.
5:34 PM
Anonymous said...

My GOD what a nut!! He thinks Fighter is anyone who calls him on his crap? Does he really think EOPC is all about HIM? Sounds like all the other exposed predators over the last 4 years.

He makes no sense and gets more bizarre by the minute.

This guy needs to be in a mental hospital. IMMEDIATELY.


8:20 PM
Anonymous said...

As I stated in my previous post;

"It (Gary Stones expose) will allow him to analyze in great detail every word of each sentence and give him something to do with his time. His time, wasted as it is will be spent refuting the expose and using it as a stick to beat his victim with."

My prediction has come true. As with a great many sociopaths, psychopaths and cyberpaths that have been exposed they live in a world of self denial and fantasy. Gary Stone has completely missed the point of his exposure on the EOPC web site. He just does not get the point that is being made there.

He, Gary Stone, is deliberately harming another individual in the world because, as a married man that had an affair with a single mother can not bring himself to admit he was wrong. Gary Stone can not face up to the truth of himself and tries to use everything (blogs, websites, emails, lawyers and the courts) in his power to punish his victim for HIS MISTAKE.

Gary Stone refuses to be a man and stand up and take responsibility for himself, trying his damnedest to make his mistakes the fault of his victim.

Copied from Gary Stone's blog site:

"But I now do have PTSD, and it is the result of the emotional spiritual and financial disaster [The Real Victim] has caused here.
[The Real Victim] will quote and even forge emails from me, she will cut and paste for effect, but she will never lay all emails end to end from January 07- January 08, because they would show her to be a master manipulator"

It's time to teach Gary Stone a new word to use.

Hypocrisy (hĭ-pŏk'rĭ-sē)

1. The practice of professing beliefs, feelings, or virtues that one does not hold or possess; falseness.
2. An act or instance of such falseness.
3. An expression of agreement that is not supported by real conviction
4. Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have

I find it just a tad bit hypocritical of Gary Stone to profess, project upon his victim that Gary Stone has PTSD.
HAHAHAHA
If Gary Stone has PTSD and was true to the diagnosis of PTSD he would not spend all the waking hours of his day revising and writing new blogs to smear his victim with.

Now that Gary Stone has learned a new word or two (Hypocrisy, Hypocritical and Hypocrite) lets count the number of times he uses the new words from now on.
I guess all cyberpaths can be accused of being a Hypocrite.


Anon
8:42 PM
Anonymous said...

Gary Stone refuses to be a man and stand up and take responsibility for himself, trying his damnedest to make his mistakes the fault of his victim.

All the listed cyberpaths do that. ALL of them. No remorse, no empathy. You can't expect someone who - from reading his nonsense - is THAT SCREWED UP to be able to take responsibility for anything!! He's a nutjob!!

Pathology is the INABILITY to change & grow. Why should Stone or any of the other Cyberpaths listed on the right change? or even see reason? It's not on their agenda.

Just the things he accuses Fighter of doing/ being are beyond the pale. As a long time member of this site - even I know he's not just reaching; he's making things up out of whole cloth!

How does law enforcement not institutionalize this man?


11:23 PM


I couldn't understand a word of what Gary Stone was saying.

In trying to twist facts Gary just ends up looking like the pathological fool he is.

I think someone should order a straight jacket, a padded cell and some serious medication for Gary Stone because he needs it.


4:00 AM
Anonymous said...

24 hours is all it took.

Copied from Gary Stone's blog

"[Victim 1], because your love for me was role playing, and non existent for one year, does not deny the existence of TPI, all of what you did there you did under that rubric, and there is little remaining now except your hypocrisy. And your self indulgence. Even your humor is forever absent."

"Follow your credo, and mediate, or prove yourself a hypocrite with a vested interest and redicule the typos of a man declared legally blind."

Bingo!

In Gary Stone's constant drive to re-write history he has gone back over his posts and inserted the word hypocrite and hypocrisy. Fact is that a sociopath, psychopath or cyberpath's behavior can be predicted, if not suggest to them. Too bad Gary Stone will never take up the suggestion for him to turn himself into Mass. State Mental Hospital for the treatment he needs.

Lets see if Gary Stone can actually remember his history correctly.

Can he remember who Patricia Sh****** is? EOPC can expect to see this name appear is his blog soon.

Seems the above victims are not [Victim 1] and [Victim 2]

Anon



8:58 AM



My sister said ” don’t feed it anymore”, so maybe this is the best approach. The people involved have done things that I wished I never saw, frightening things, and they don’t see that they are being operated through.


I only have only comment on the blog that is referring people here, it is tabloidism. And false. 08 percent outright lies, 1 percent twists, and 1 percent truth.

Is he for REAL?? Can one person really be THAT screwed up that he can't see its all in his head and he's full of crap?

Can't his sister put him in a mental hospital for a while? This guy needs it bad.


12:51 AM
Victims Of Angela Buer said...

Gary Stone sounds so much like my harasser ANGELA BUER its scary. Angela Buer spends a lot of time on my victims blog searching frantically for any personal information she can use against me and the other victims. If you go to my blog you can see, just like fighter talks about the number of hours Gary Stone spends on here, how she spends LOTS of time on our blog and she uses the Los Angeles County Library! Typical narcissistic behavior. They think they are above the law. I doubt gary Stone even has a lawyer and any lawyer with any common sense would probably run!


7:31 PM
Anonymous said...

If Gary Stone has PTSD and was true to the diagnosis of PTSD he would not spend all the waking hours of his day revising and writing new blogs to smear his victim with.

ABSOLUTELY TRUE

This guy's psychotic!!

Does his wife know he spends this much time online writing to and about other people??


2:36 PM
Victimsofangela said...

We helped fighter expose him on another blog where he rants and he of course threatened that he had turned us into the fbi..What a nutcase! He en attacks us and states that we need to stop posing as victims. And fo course where he ranted is a palce that our cyberharasser posted a defamatory and malicious postings.


9:43 PM

victimsofangela - Stone now claims you turned on EOPC, called us stalkers, said you told him we hacked your site and set you up.

This man needs serious psychiatric intervention...

just look at his unreadable nonsense:
http://cybercrimerickkineelainemaysmith.blogspot.com

He is doing this to himself and is fundamentally unbalanced.


3:14  PM

EOPC was nothing but good and supportive to me.  I have seen Stone's new blogs.  He is out of his mind and twisting or misinterpreting what I told him.  Either than or he's making it up.

You keep on doing the good work you do!  Gaury.

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